I am member of the football (soccer) in the deaf team. I was arguing with Jaffa about return the uniform for two weeks late. He has a bad cocky attudute to me about this sms. I dont really appreciate this situation when we were arguing over the sms. Next day, I went to his office at his work place. We got biggest arguement about this reason. Jaffa and I were really angry each other and he was sick of my smart talking to him, and agurement on the paper from write back to forth. somehow, I decided to talk to his boss for what happen about his attuiduate. I explained to his boss as well as he needs to know what s going on, but I can read his boss's eyes that he seems alittle laugh on his mind and be cool with me. I can tell that he is good friend with Jaffa. You can read this diaglog from his boss while he talked to me. read this below.
April 22nd 2005
the diaglog to his boss:
boss: what do you need?
me: I showed him a paper of the jaffa's sms.
boss: are you captain?
Me: noddle my head says NO.
me:I was trying to given Mushin (captain of the deaf team) for return the uniform. Unfortunty, he was not able to meet me twice due to not make to mee me on his time and my time. but Jaffa got mad at me and he was threating on me to not be on the team again.
me:I dont like Jaffa's attuidude. I am trying to make a deal with him.
boss: I am not too sure the reason for his behavior but I will ask him.
boss: how late are you?
Me: two weeks
boss: he is probably angry with you.
me: I am trying to do is return the uniform, so I was trying to explain him but he was cussed on me. He(JAFFA) just needs to say " please come here to see me at my office"
boss: everyone is angry now - Jaffa and you can get done if you both are angry, wait for 1/2 days and maybe try to approach him.
boss: do you have a training this weekend?
me: nope, Jaffa decided not to have a deaf training anything more that was 1.5 month ago. I don't understand why he stopped too long, so He says, he will have a training again sooner, I dont know when it will be starting again. In the professional situation, he needs to be calm down and be polite to me.
boss: I am not too sure if he needs to explain anyting to anyone form what I know he is getting paid right
boss: I will talk to him no promise... if there is a reason i will try to find out
boss: both of you just cool down first ok we dont taken it to hear it.
me: can I ask you personal question? does he say" Fuck you" in his voice on you?"
boss: alittle smile on his mouth.
boss: its the personal nature.
boss: there is a fuck in almost every sentense
boss normally, it is not serious but when he gets angry... like now geuss he uses it more forcefully.
boss: he is an ok guy ... he may have his reasons for shouting at you. like i said.... until we know the reasons, no point jumping to conclusions let s thing cool down and then we can discuss things. after that, I left his boss's office and Jaffa's office, I looked at Jaffa's face. he did not look at me or nothing repond. I knew the boss is winkle on his eyes to Jaffa, so I decided to do "evendrop" on the window. I saw Jaffa was alaugh at his boss due to " I am stupid" and I came back to his office again, and I was standing and watch jaffa was talking to his boss. I KNEW IT! his boss will not blaw on him. When jaffa was looking at me, and shocking to see me to stand right there. my head was look like cocky and my head says " what s up" then Jaffa asked me to come to talk him and started to nice me. Jaffa asked me if I wanted to get back to deaf training again for soccer? I said, what would I do in soccer team?" he was explaining me about soccer team. I noddled my head slowly like a cocky. then we got better to talk eachother. I am sure Jaffa realized that I am not MUTE AND STUPID!
On April 21, 2005 (SMS)
Kenichi:I was figuring out that my work is split tiime. I can meet you in kallang mrt at 3pm.
Jaffa: No. U r supposed to come my office!!!
Kenichi: well, i am tight time and kallang is near to your work place. my work is at Orchard.
Jaffa:Fuck U! U still have the cheek to ask collect from you. u supposed to return long ago! come early then! No Stupid exeuse!
Kenichi: Watch your attitude. where is your professional talk? be a negotitate. That is not hard to do.
Jaffa: I dont negotiate. I dont tolerate cocky attitude. U dont have to be smart with me! just who the hell you think you are?
Kenichi: ok, no problem. I lost your respect.
Jaffa:up to u. U were givne sample time. All already return left u> why do special? I dont need your respect! Tmw or else I dont want to c your face again in my trg!
Kenichi: ok, no problem. I will return the uniform without agurment. I realized that your authourized is verbal abuse toward to me.
Jaffa: too bad if u feel abused. I am straightforward person. If i dont like it, I will say it loud. I dont keep hate.
Kenichi:Remember, your personal attitude is seperate from your professional job' s attutide.
Jaffa: its all abt responsiblity. how can i trust u if you are not responsible? U were trying your luck with me. sorry it did not work. Nothing personal just business!
Jaffa: I dun want to waste time wif u now. remember tmw dats all. end.
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